When Finances and Health Fail You

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By Browneyes41

I Have Been There A Time or Two, How About You?

Desperate Times... Take Desperate Measures, and, A Whole Lot Of Good Ol' TLC! This Is My Story!

As you can see, I have listed my personal Antiques for sale on this site, as well as many other items. I want to do something, that will have the chance to make better, as many lives as possible, especially in this time of recession and thereafter. There is a saying that I highly believe in. " To whom much is Given, Much is Required! "

My Goals:

  • To humble myself, and offer comfort and hope, to as many people as possible,not only because of my future demonstrated generosity, but also, because of the interest you will have in my life story as it unfolds through my hubs.
  • To raise, as much as possible, for many charities that need, all of our help.
  • To be proud of who I am, and help others feel the same about themselves.
  • Most importantly, to have more quantity and quality time with my loved ones, and to some degree, help brighten the day, for each and everyone of you!

I will be adding to my hub regularly. I will be sharing my life's many struggles, in hopes that I can give hope and encouragement to others, as you become a fan, and continue to follow my goal's progress.

MY STORY

I have, just recently, lost my home and small business. It has been very sad, disappointing and embarrassing. It has been, also perhaps, the best thing, that could have ever happened to me, all at the same time.

Let me explain.....

I am forty one, and the mother of five children. Three biological, and 2 step-children. All, absolutely, wonderful kids. I use to own and operate a Special Care Home, and also a Landscape Company in New Brunswick, Canada. You will see future hubs on these subjects from myself as well in the near future.

During the years of operation, I worked non-stop. Many years, without time off or vacation. In the Special Care Home, because of the 24 hour care and medical requirements of my clients, I, most often, couldn't afford or even find workers to come in, and therefore, I missed out on so much with my family and children. I missed; most of the basketball games, and all of their talent shows. :(

My dedication to my businesses was excellent from a work perspective but I quickly found myself, in a heart- torn scenario... Do I stick it out and hope that our Special Care Home fills with clients, and thus, I could afford the workers and have time for the family? ....or............ After many years of struggle and exhaustion.............................................................................. Do I reluctantly,... throw in the towel,... and move on? I had to give careful consideration to my health as well, since I also had been diagnosed with Fibromyalgia, Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, IBS, COPD, and High blood Pressure. I am only in my 40's and life as I knew it, had to change dramatically. I will discuss these topics as well in the near future.

Please check out my other hubs for the Rest of the Story! :)

50 Diamonds plus in this Brooche! My Personal Antiques For Sale

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Comments

merrie 2 years ago

Debbie , you are a strong , kind woman and wish you nothing but the best.

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Browneyes41 Hub Author 2 years ago

Thanks Merrie! Your a sweetie!

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RedElf Level 7 Commenter 2 years ago

All the best to you BrownEyes! I wish you well in your endeavors. You have set yourself some lofty goals, but you sound like the kind of determined lady who can achieve them! You go, girl!

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Karen Banes 2 years ago

Your hubs are very inspiring. I also love that saying 'to whom much is given, much is required'. Have a wonderful holiday season spending time (so much more important than money) with your loved ones.

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Naomi R. Cox Level 1 Commenter 2 years ago

When there are other people involved, the decisions we make in life, effects them also. I hope enjoy your family now to the fullest and have great success in Hub Pages.

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Moneylady 2 years ago

Hi Great work! I enjoyed reading this. Looking forward to more!

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cashmere 2 years ago

I hope you find that hubpages is the answer to your problems. All the best browneyes!

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Peggy W Level 8 Commenter 2 years ago

Best of wishes as you move forward. You have a great attitude which really helps. Your goal of wanting to help charities is admirable. So much in the way of need out there...especially with the world economy as it is today.

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Niteriter 2 years ago

I admire your courage and bubbly spirit. My best wishes are with you as you face the challenges.

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